Showing posts with label holy sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holy sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

do not awaken love too soon, my child


“I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem,
do not stir up nor awaken love until it pleases.”
Song of Solomon 2:7, 3:5, and 8:4


I have scars from my love-past. Tender-to-the-touch places that my sweet Lord has graciously healed, yet marks that will always describe my history. Memories periodically arise reminding of that rough terrain of old, places I walked to learn life’s lessons the hard way. And the memories leave me burdened for my own sweet children.




I'm sharing over at the MODsquad today. Click here to read the rest of the story.


Bringing it home...

How has your own past driven your prayers of intercession for your children or grandchildren?



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Thursday, March 31, 2011

standing in front of the near-naked woman

We finished our trip to the grocery store in record time, without any potty breaks. Which, by the way, is a pure miracle. I wrestled the over sized, impossible-to-turn, racecar-cart into the check-out aisle, and there she stood.


Gorgeous. Curvy. Seductive. Near-naked. Air-brushed. Right at eye-level with my two young boys and my one impressionable girl--all three actively working-out "beauty" in their hearts and minds.





I had a mental moment imagining myself in slow motion diving over the cart obstrocity into the magazine stand speaking in a deep, slow voice, "nooooooo," in efforts to protect their precious eyes from images too mature.


I quickly snapped back into reality. And I breathed prayer to Him, "Father, guard their hearts. Blind their eyes to unnecessary things." Then I repositioned myself in front of her voluptuousness.


I think that's part of our call as parents. To be a buffer. To stand in the gap. To pray for their protection from falsity.


But then our call is to rest in the love of our great God.


Faith will be our place of victory. Trusting Him to be moving on behalf of His own, forever reigning over the details. Even in the grocery store check-out.


He is greater than any magazine cover. He is greater than any perversion that enters their sweet lives. He is worthy of our trust.



Bringing it home...

How have you seen the battle to keep your children "innocent" play out in your own life?

How goes your trust in your sovereign God?



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Tuesday, March 8, 2011

pornography. a door leading to soul-death.


It now saturates the church pews, suffocating the minds and homes of too many to count.


Pornography. There. I said it.


It takes men and women captive through empty promises of satisfaction. Lies defining sex as external and simplistic, something to be bought and sold and hidden.


But the lies eat away at one's soul.








He created sex. He designed it in all of its glory and mystery. Denying Him centrality in its discussion leaves sexuality as a mere facade. Apart from His voice, we miss the fullness.


Yet too many are bound--seduced. And I find myself burdened for my own children. Burdened for my own boys.


If left unaddressed, one taste can lead to a feasting which can lead to an addiction which can lead to soul destruction.


So how can we help others battle against the deception? How can we equip our kids to fight for purity?


Here are four very basic ideas--very basic ideas. This is not meant to be a comprehensive list, as situations can get very sticky and multi-dimensional.




  1. Pray. Commune with the Lord. If we are concerned for someone, then the place to begin is on our knees before the Holy One. Asking for His vision. Asking for His strength. Asking for His wisdom. Asking for His timing.



  2. Confront. With unconditional love at the core, desiring to see the other live free from lies, approach with the utmost humility. Remember that apart from His great grace, it would be me still bound by chains.



  3. Equip. Especially with regard to our children, may we teach them to "sharpen their swords." Show them from the word God's instruction and design. Teach them how to meditate on truth and take captive their lustful thoughts.





  4. Wait. Allow God some space to move around. Allow others some time to respond. In the meantime, love.



Bringing it home...

As I said above this is not a comprehensive list. What would you add?

How are you equipping your own children to battle against lust?



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