Showing posts with label the Father's love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the Father's love. Show all posts

Friday, May 20, 2011

an adoption story


New life begins to grow inside her, along with strangling fears. Another mouth to feed. Another child to raise from girl to woman. The future seems complicated. Uncontrolled. Worries wake her as an unfamiliar pain grips her mama-heart.


The stars outside fall into place as usual. The sun sets and the moon lights, bright on that African plain. In the quiet she does all she knows to do. She whispers a prayer to Him. Her God. The listening One. The able One. The willing One.






She asks for a family who seeks Him--one who knows Him and loves Him and teaches Him. A family who will carve out a space for this precious one soon to be birthed oceans away. Tears and hope begin to mix together on that warm night. Tears with the thought of letting go. Hope with the thought of love lavished on her new one.


As her faith prayer is breathed, He answers. Miles away He begins planting seeds of desire in the chosen family. Seeds that He confirms and confirms, over and over. Seeds that soon sprout above the soil, green and tender. And a little uncertain.


Months go by. The desires grows strong and sure. The path lays straight before them. Until that day when this new one unites with those chosen for her. Chosen by Him. Joy erupts with first touches.


That mama may never know. That mama may never hear. But that mama's prayer was answered. Faithfully. Her victory will come in the believing.


This post written in awe as I have watched our God work adoption into a family I hold dear. Love. Love.



Bringing it home...

How does the thought of this mama's answered prayer encourage you?

Do you have an adoption story to share?



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Wednesday, May 4, 2011

we are all asking the same question

It seems we're all asking the same questions. Am I loved? Lovely? Love-able?


We want to know that we hold the attention of another. That someone notices our nuances and then smiles tender with interested eyes. We want to be fully known and loved regardless. The reckless love that pursues and stays and sacrifices.


And. We are.




We are perfectly known--from our rising up to our sitting down. Every intent behind every word on our lips is known. His gaze is set firm on his own. His thoughts innumerable and precious. His plans prosperous.


That craving to be known subsides in his glorious presence. For we are known with an eternal, love-knowing. His gaze locked. Cling there.


"God demonstrates his own love towards us,
in that while we were still sinners,
Christ died for us." Romans 5:8


"And my God shall supply all your need
according to His riches in glory
by Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19


Bringing it home...

Read Psalm 139

How has he proven the sufficiency of his love in your own life?



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Saturday, April 30, 2011

for those needing hope


We crave it. A happy ending with pretty people. Something bright in a world that often feels dark.


Yet images of royalty flash across the screen followed by the cry of cities devastated and families separated. It's hard for a mind to comprehend.


When full, we rarely seek. But when empty and broken, desperation forces us to look at him. Look for him--questioning him.





It's in those times of soul-fatigue that we have a choice. Either we reject Him as unfaithful and deny Him as sovereign, choosing to define him based upon what our eyes momentarily see.


Or we choose to believe him to be who he has revealed himself to be. Beginning with him and then resting in his Father hands.


Only one choice stirs the hope. Praying hope to rise in him for those facing great loss today.


"Preserve me, O God, for in You I put my trust."
Psalm 16:1


Bringing it home...

What word from the Word can you give to someone needing hope?



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Sunday, April 24, 2011

two angels now sat instead of hovered


Two now sat instead of hovered. For nearly one thousand years two cherubim of gold hovered over the ends of the mercy seat. Facing one another with wings touching, covering that seat of sacrifice while looking on the yearly blood. (see Exodus 25:17-22) But now their wings rested.


When Mary peered into the tomb, two angels sat--one where Jesus' head had been, the other his feet. No longer were the cherubim covering that bloody sin sacrifice. They too declared with their posture, "It is finished."


The final sacrifice had been made. The debt paid with Jesus' unblemished body and blood. Redemption purchased. For me. For you.


Then He defeated death--that final foe.


He overcame. He arose. He looked death in the eye and crushed its power. In full supremacy. He. is. alive!




And He will come again.


One of these days the Father will look to his son and declare to the heavenlies with holy authority, "It. Is. Time." The feast will be ready. The trumpets will shout. The angels will gather in rejoicing. And those who knew him as Lord will meet him in the sky.


The story is not over. In some ways, it is just beginning. He is risen. And He will come again. Hallelujah.


Bringing it home...

One question. Do you know Him?




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Friday, April 8, 2011

stricken with a deadly disease


Convince us of our grievous state.

Overwhelm us with Your abounding grace.




"Once let him see his sin, and he must see his Savior. He feels stricken with a deadly disease, and nothing will satisfy him but the great Physician. He hungers and thirsts, and he must have nothing less than the bread of life." J.C. Ryle, Holiness



Jesus.


Bringing it home...

Practically speaking, how do you feast on Him in the dailiness?



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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

when bitter steals love


Bitter steals love. It can settle on my tongue so quick until all I taste is ill-will. It infiltrates my thoughts before I notice. And with that, love is stolen.


Forgiving is hard. Let's be honest. My rights stand up big when my toes are crushed. My heart secretly insists that the pain be acknowledged and the broken mended with groveling.






But that is not how He works. That is not how He loves me. Instead He intercedes for His enemies--those hammering Him to a cross and denying His name.


He isn't weak. Or frail. Or dumb. Or delirious. He simply lives in perfect oneness with the Father. His love is not threatened by the actions of man.


I push Him away when I slather my ungrace and my unmercy all over those beside me. But who am I to demand anything?


Me. The one who has slapped my Lord in the face with disrespectful rebellion over the years. The one who adulterates my own soul with idols of this world.


My freedom call is to love. To love is to forgive. To forgive is to release others from my selfish wrath, choosing to remember the offense no more. Choosing to take each thought captive to love rather than to bitter.


Only by His grace. Only in the power of His Spirit.


Bringing it home...

Do you have a story of forgiveness?
How can we practically dig up a bitter root?



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Monday, March 21, 2011

wrestling against fear


Fear came for a visit this weekend, like an enemy with whom I had severed all ties--unwanted and unexpected.


My man had taken my two boys on their first camping trip, complete with tent and sleeping bags. And no cell service.






Just as dark covered my bedroom windows, my mind began feasting on "what-ifs." At first the fears were subtle, like a distant, undefinable hum. But as the evening passed they became more pronounced. More visual.


And I felt trapped in a paralyzing web.


I tried to break free with distractions like food and email. But the fears haunted.


Then wisdom hit. I got low before my Lord and laid each thought before Him. I named the fears, out-loud, one-by-one, until they all hovered in the air of our conversation. Confession, for He commands "fear not."


I then spoke His truth. I chose the truth of His character as my place of meditation and slowly my heart believed. Slowly. But certainly.


Dare my night be stolen by fear.


Soon after, my mind rested. My eyes closed. And in a moment, morning came. And all my boys? They arrived later that day with campfire memories.



Bringing it home...

Are you battling any fears?

What truths of His character could bring comfort to your "what-ifs"?



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Monday, March 7, 2011

priceless art


The canvas awakens my morning eyes.
Truth swirled into this moment of time with purpose.
Hues my eyes cannot fully define.
One glance and my spirit dances--free.





I pause as the relevant graces the page.
Taking it in slow, I encamp over His word.
It whispers my name.
It's here, I'm known.


This quiet moment created for me,
Or maybe I for this moment,
To behold the glory and splendor--speechless.
It enters my marrow. It alters my plans.


Fascination, nondiscrimination...Revelation--
Given to all who seek.
As bread it feeds my soul-hunger.
As water it quenches the dry.


Piercing.


The Creator holds the paintbrush.
His love drips from the bristles, crimson red,
In fierce pursuit of my wayward heart.



Bringing it home...

How has he proven his word to be priceless art in your own life?



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Monday, February 14, 2011

what Janet Jackson taught me about love {or not}


I am a product of Janet Jackson's 1986 hit, "What have you done for me lately." {uh uh uh uh uh, oooh oooh oooh, yeah.}


Seven years after its release, I graduated from high school defining "love" with similar sentiments.



photo credit - nicole pierce



For most of my life I wrestled with this little word love. I wanted the Cinderella story complete with gown and horse-drawn buggy. I wanted the "happily ever after" while gazing longingly into my man's eyes.


But our love story has been more of a Lifetime drama.


My man and I have walked through deep valleys with tough choices. We have questioned the plan and left wounds on the other. We have pointed fingers and miscommunicated.


But here we are...loving.


In these wife-years I have learned some things about love. True love--the Maker's love--chooses to pour out rather than demand.


It lifts and waits and gives. It fights for truth and destroys the list of wrongs. It suffers long and believes when hope hides. It is not based on the actions of the other.


How I want to love as my Lord so graciously loves me.


Sweet Janet Jackson, I enjoyed jamming to your songs. I forgive you for feeding into my confusion.


And to my man, I. love. you.



Bringing it home...

How has true love been proven in your own life?



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Monday, January 17, 2011

He is present tense


Just to remind the heart of His child--

the depths of the one who trusts in Him...


He lives.

He sees you.

He hears you.

He understands you.

He remains faithful to you.

He gives what's best for you.

He blankets you.

He forgives you.

He pursues you.

He defends you.

He sustains you.


He loves you. Loves. You.


Actively. Presently. Continually. Undoubtedly. Faithfully. Wholly.

Through the shed blood of His Son.


Believe.


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Friday, January 14, 2011

chasing love...to Suffolk, VA


Yesterday's post definitely stirred up some comments--both on the blog and in my everyday life. I had a conversation with a dear friend of mine that caused me to go one step further in my pondering of food.

Yes. Our bodies are the Lord's temple (how graciously cool is that?!) so I think it obvious that we respect that temple and fill it with healthy things. However, everyone is in process. Everyone. Including me. Including you.

In whatever convictions He lays on our individual hearts, we must allow love to be our guide. We are under grace, not Law.



photo credit - flickr photo by pink sherbet photography



"If your brother is grieved because of your food, you are no longer walking in love. Do not destroy with your food the one for whom Christ died...for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit." (Romans 14:15-17)



May love for our brothers and sisters
be our ultimate drive
.



So speaking of love for my sisters, I get to go share with some lovely women in Suffolk, VA today for a women's conference. If you are in the Suffolk area and want something encouraging and invigorating to do with your girlfriends, then come on out! I would love to meet you!


Here are the details...


Southside Baptist Church
917 Carolina Road
Suffolk, VA

Friday night, 7-9 p.m.
Saturday morning, 8:30 - noon

Tickets are $12 and include Saturday breakfast.

Come and let Him renew your heart!


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Monday, November 29, 2010

the deep waters of love


This weekend I caught up on some blog reading. When I read the words of a certain sister-friend, they did something to me. Kat from "Inspired to Action" spoke of the relentless love of Father-God. And it infused hope and joy. She says...



"Because God has whispered in my heart that maybe you’ve forgotten you’re wonderful. Maybe you’ve forgotten you are undeniably and incomprehensibly loved.

Right where you are. In the cold, dark filth of your worst places. In all His dignity, purity and goodness, He wants to bellyflop right in, pick you up and gently hold you fiercely
."



Tell me that's not a beautiful depiction. The image of the Most High diving right in to all there is of me--all my junk, all my despair, all my failures, all my mess--and holding me fiercely. Lavishing His love.

Then I thought further. He does that for all His children. Even those that I might struggle to lavish. He whispers to them words of acceptance and adoration through Christ. He meets them exactly where they are and pours out His love. Perfectly. All while I might be pondering criticisms or frustrations.

(Sigh.)

How I desire to love like that. To meet others in the midst of their process and just love. Dare to love. Without strings or demands or expectations. Diving in deep, leaving any rights on the shore.

All for the glory due His name and the freedom of my soul.

Love through me, LORD.



Bringing it home...

How can we dare to love others exactly where they are in their journey while laying down our own rights or expectations?

In turn, how does it free our own souls?



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Wednesday, November 10, 2010

a reconciling love

So much depravity surrounds us. We drip. It's everywhere. We cannot escape it. We cannot deny it. Pastors. Leaders. Teachers. Parents. Spouses. Fallen into pits of consequential sin.

The news proclaims it and pulls on my curiosity. The magazines print it, enticing my eyes to linger. Linger on lies and hurt and brokenness. We whisper and point and blog. Yet only by His grace, it is not me. Not today, anyway...



To read my entire post
follow the link to "Do Not Depart"
where I am hanging out today.





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Tuesday, August 10, 2010

count it all joy

Talk about a woman who allowed suffering to have its perfect work. Rachel Barkey walked the path of painful cancer with amazing strength in her Lord. She died at the age of 37 leaving her husband and two young children. But her powerful legacy of faith remains.

It is worth your time to watch an event video of Rachel speaking just twelve weeks prior to her flight to be with her Lord. You will be challenged and encouraged.

"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing." James 1:2-3



True joy lingers, even in the darkness, for those who abide in Him.


tuesdays unwrapped at cats



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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

listen for the whisper

He loves you. Do you know that today? I mean really know it. In your depths. Does it affect your stance and your peace?

His Word says that perfect love casts out fear.

Fear cannot stand up against the flood of His love. Fear flees as we truly trust in His banner waving over us. As we trust His hands of love cradling our days.

If you are His, then your name is engraved on the palm of His hand. He will never leave you or forsake you. Never. And His love over-arches His movement in your life. And mine.

The Rock comes up under our feet as we choose to stand still and rest in His love. To trust that everything He allows, and even ordains, in the lives of His children is out of His love--for our ultimate good and His necessary glory.

He is always whispering His love. Always. Do you hear it? Do you hear Him?

He chose you. Saved you. Washed you. Cleansed you. Broke you. Restored you. Refreshed you. And will one day glorify you.

Friend, He loves you. Believe Him.

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OK, so is this "legal"--to share a song posted on You Tube? Well. Listen and then go buy it. Mercy Me, "The Love of God."





Hangin' with Emily and the girls over at "Chatting at the Sky"

tuesdays unwrapped at cats



holy experience


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Monday, June 28, 2010

preceding love

He is always loving us. Always.

It recently hit me.

In everything that God allows into the lives of His children--His children--He is loving us. In the moments of those who name Him "Daddy," His love precedes Him.

Through difficult relationships, long lines, broke-down treasures, disobedient cells, He sheds the self-life in His own. He continually teaches of His sufficient grace. Nothing is arbitrary.

Do you believe that? Do you see His acts of love in moments far from ideal?

Do I?

His love does not equal our happiness. At least not as the chief motivator. His love pursues with vision of our transformation into a holy vessel, for His glory and our ultimate good. His love pierces, heals, reveals, and soothes the places within us that hinder the flow of Himself.

Life apart from His love filling and overflowing in us leaves one sensing the futility. Meaning and hope arise when we rest in the truth of His Word, regardless of circumstance or ever-changing feelings:

In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am persuaded that...(nothing) shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:37-39)

His love comes first.

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Sunday, April 4, 2010

Glorious

I imagine that the cool, morning air lightened their grieving hearts. The sun was rising for the third time since their Lord had taken His final breath. But on that day, the Son arose.

Death couldn't keep Him in the tomb. A stone couldn't keep Him locked away. A seal couldn't keep Him under government control. The Son arose.

Do we grasp the effects? He broke the power that sin has on mankind. He defeated death. His feet walked over it and stood on it, as the victor of a war. The Son arose.

By faith in Him, we enter into His resurrection. Sin only suffocates to the point that we allow. He gives us choice. He gives us spiritual weapons to fight the battles for our souls. The Son arose.

He promises life abundant--peace when storms brew, joy springing up from ashes, love beyond human comprehension. In Him we are raised from our slumber. The Son arose.

He desires we live a life of power, a life that affects, a life that experiences His ways. No circumstance can trump Him. No created thing can overpower Him. The Son arose.

Today is Easter and we rejoice. Because He lives, I am made alive.



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Friday, April 2, 2010

Symphony of Love

Offensively gruesome. Overtly radical. A plan that baffles the heart yet empowers the soul. A death that turned the pages of history and set its seal upon time. A freedom that crosses national lines and eradicates social agenda. A love that bled on a Roman cross with rusty nails.

Upon the answer to "why?" hinges the hope of the gospel. Why did Jesus have to die?

Our Creator planned with precision, down to the very hour in all eternity.

The Father instituted the sacrificial system--the shedding of innocent blood for the remission of sins--at the beginning. For hundreds of years His own people performed yearly sacrifices while prophesying of the final Lamb--the One who would bear the weight of all sin for all time.

Jesus is that One.

He was the God-man--ultimate Truth wrapped in fleshly skin. His blood--perfectly pure. His power--restrained for the salvation of many. His heart--beating a symphony of love.

Today is Good Friday and we remember Jesus with arms outstretched upon that tree--for you and for me.

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Friday, March 26, 2010

Love Transformed

A few years ago I realized that I did not truly know how to love. I mean really love, with no strings attached and regardless of the other--love like my Savior who died on splintery wood for His enemies. So I started conversing with God. I laid my conditional love at His feet and desired it to be transformed. And He faithfully moved in.

In the past two years I have learned more about true love--unconditional, piercing love--than my thirty years prior. True love--God's love--evidences itself most vividly when someone unlovely is in our path. When we have been betrayed, mishandled, or broken and we choose to allow the immeasurable love of our Creator to shed forth onto another through our feeble hands, regardless of their return. This love passes human comprehension and frees the soul.

We cannot love like this from our emotions. It is an outflow of His love in us--an overflow of fullness. His love is love. Everything else wears the mask of cheap imitation.

Your love breaks the chains. Hands raised.

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